Thursday, December 20, 2018
R Update
Tomorrow will be a week that R has been in the rehab facility. He will be staying there until January 3. Yes, Christmas and New Year's. It seems he takes one step forward and 3 steps back. He felt really bad yesterday and today. He had a couple of days when his legs weren't so swollen and weeping. The wounds are slowly healing , but today his legs were weeping really bad again and he's very swollen. I'm sure they will have to give him lasix again, and that will put more strain on his kidneys. I feel so bad for him, and sad, and I'm trying so hard to keep his spirits up. He's depressed over being there, and especially so because of the holidays. He becomes very frustrated by all of it, and especially his inability to get his legs to work. He said they feel like he has weights attached to them. Between the cellulitis and the renal failure, his body is having to fight so hard. He's a very sick man, and this is such a vast, scary landscape that we find ourselves in.
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Angie, I am so, so, so sorry to read this. I have a good friend who is going through something similar although her husband was allowed home with a nurse a few days ago. She has a heart condition herself and I am so worried about the stress. Please take care of yourself as much as you can. There is always SKYPE as a way to share Christmas Day with loved ones and you might be able to do this. And maybe some Christmas music to lift his spirits?
So sorry the progress is slow. I hope he is able to heal soon and start feeling better. You too!
Dear dear Tabor, your kindness and concern are so so appreciated. I am so afraid for him. Your caring comments add a bright spot to my days. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Thank you for your your kind words.
So sorry that this is such a hard time for both of you.
My prayers are for healing and peace--also strength to cope!
Sending love and comfort. xo
I believe in Christmas miracles! But we never know what they will look like! We hold tight to hope knowing again that sometimes we can only pray for the strength to go another day. So I send you my strength when you feel too tired to go on. But go on you must.
I do know that it is in the still small voice we find the smile. It is when we simply let go that the calm returns and we experience radical acceptance. .
This is a defining time for you, a time you will refer to as "before R was sick and after."
As we go forward in the season of return to light may you find a measure of joy and beauty as you walk in courage through this most difficult challenge.
Forever Q
I’m still here, listening with all of my heart. ♥️ 🕯 🙏🏻
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